how to manage these 2 attitudes?
Arrogance v/s self-confidence.
There is a thin line between to be arrogant or self-confident which you don’t need to cross over. firstly I define what is self-confidence actually is in comparison with arrogance ,then at last I will conclude over it.
self-confidence — In this case you think ‘ you are the best’ and you still have the humility to learn something new in sync with it. This attitude does not throw you in the arena of arrogance. Its the best way to represent ourselves in going with updating by learning new skills daily ,ever second . And if you want your new unbelievable version of yourself you have to give your 100 % in that .
Firstly keep in mind “ you are your only competition “no one is your competition other than your own abilities , you have to bring a change in yourself only to fight with your old abilities and create a changed version of your self. confident in achieving your goals while learning new everyday.when I tell about self-confidence it means the best version of yourself in performing ,by not comparing it with anybody .
Confidence + Humility means healthy self confidence with crossing the border leads to arrogance. In which a person decides “ I CAN DO; I WILL ACHIEVE IT “
Arrogance- In this case a person thinks ‘ he is the best in the world’, no one can beat him. Humility means letting our mind and heart open to learn form the people around us. arrogance is the enemy of growth , by making you self-obsessed , and gifts you the attitude that nobody is above me in this universe, that kill your change and add on skills to your mind .
Be confident but don’t let you to join the path of arrogance , because no one in this universe in perfect 100% . keep you open every time at any age will benefit you in the long journey of success.
CONCLUSION:
As everybody around us has something to offer to this universe , just keep yor soul open to get it whether its form a lower person than you or bigger than you in age or in authority.
It’s easy when you follow a bigger person which is your ideal because you consider it your authority but its difficult to listen to person lower than you , he may be your house made to offer.
And it’s unbelievable to listen to the person who is equal to you in any way, because jealousy, ego rules on head in that condition. If you are able to do that also after practicing humility for some time that you became a gear example of what we call a perfect self-confidence.
